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Thursday, January 13, 2011

Va Bene

The past two days have been pretty tiring, lots of orientation and meetings to attend but it's all been really useful and I've learned so much!  Yesterday after orientation, my program organized for us to go to Noon bar for "aperitivo" which is a tradition popular among the Milanese; it's sort of like happy hour in the U.S. except you pay for drinks and then the appetizers are free.  It was so much fun! The bar was two levels and IES reserved part of the top level for us so we ordered drinks and then waiters brought around trays of an assortment of cheeses (including brie!!), meats like proscuitto and what looked like salami, and bread including foccacia bread and pizza-esque bread.  It was delicious and we had a blast, this is such a cool ritual that younger Milanese people have and I think the U.S. should adopt it as well :)  We went out to our first "disco" after that which was fun, too!

Today we had a 2 hour guided walking tour of Milan which was really interesting.  We got to see many different parts of the city, including one of Giorgio Armani's houses and Via Montenapoleone which is basically the holy grail of shopping.  This street, as well as the area around the Duomo, had pretty much every high end brand you could imagine and many of the stores' headquarters or main offices are also located here.  Of course we couldn't go in since they were "shop by appointment only" but it was so cool to see them. 

It's funny how many inconsistencies there are in Italian culture.  For example, the interiors of many places including our apartment are so bright and colorful but everyone walks around in black; our tour guide explained that many homes and green areas are not visible from the city (they are behind walls) because Italians don't like to flaunt their wealth, yet they drive around in ferrari's and BMW's and wear Armani suits; Italians can be very 'touchy' in an endearing way, yet they just about run you over every time you try and cross the street (I am 100% certain I will get hit at some point across these next 5 months haha).  It's been really interesting noticing these differences as well as the differences in American and Italian culture.

After our tour, we had lunch and my friends and I had some gelato for the first time!  It was delicious and dangerously close to where we'll be taking classes ;)  We had a few more seminars afterwards and they also explained the field trips we have this semester which include a ski trip, a cuisine field trip, and a day trip to the abbey's.  After that we had to go to the post office to start the process of getting our "permesso di soggiorno's" (permit to stay).  It took 2 hours for about 10 of us to sign 3 sheets of paper and pay 30 Euros - Italian bureaucray at its finest.  This was also just the start of the process, too, as one of the IES staff directors said that we'll also have to make 2 trips to the police station before actually receiving our permit to stay card, perfect. 

We're all pretty tired but still running on adrenaline so I think we're finally going to the grocery store near our apartment soon and then maybe aperitivo part two after that :) Oh and this was pretty cool,  Milan is listed as #5 in the top 41 places to go in 2011 by the New York Times! Check it out at: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/09/travel/09where-to-go.html?_r=1

Side note: the Italians really know how to enjoy life!  No one works too hard, they drink wine all the time, cafe's and gelatteria's are everywhere, most shops are closed on Sundays, we have "quiet hours" in our apartment from 2-4pm which I'm assuming means that this time is reserved for rest during the day, and eating and drinking wine are integral parts of daily life :)

So far I've met some really interesting people, people from all over the world and people pursuing really interesting things.  Everyone has been so friendly and our program has been incredibly organized and helpful to us during our first frantic days here, which is great.  I still feel pretty helpless here despite learning so much in my first few days and I can't wait to not feel like a foreigner anymore.  When we went back to the cafe we went to the first morning, the two guys inside laughed but they love us... we plan on being regulars there :) 

And now some pictures!!

 The hallway of the spa!!

view from our balcony

view from the other side on our balcony

our living room


hallwayy

littttle kitchen

my room!

what I wake up to every morning :)

our favorite cafe close to our apartment on our way to our school!

a group of us at aperitivo!

Duomo

Giorgio Armani's house

Benvenuti a Milano!


4 comments:

  1. I think it's time for you to come home....you are having way too much fun!! And I am also thinking that you will be shopping way too much at those expensive stores.
    Don't you want to come home and do some baking??? We've been doing without for sooooo long, or at least since you left on Sunday. Aren't you worried at all about whether we might be driving your sporty little SUV all over town? Don't you miss the snow? And the ubiquitous mushroom smell? Don't you wonder if your PSU townhouse has sticky floors (i.e., might you be missing out on a party or two?)? I'm skyping you on Sat morning...we'll have to have a long chat....

    Love, Mom (you knew it was me, right?)

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  2. Shop by appointment??? Who does that?!! Great pics! What a beautiful place to study and what a wonderful crew you're with! I wish you luck in your Italian class tomorrow, I'm sure you will be speaking like a native in no time! Start labelling everything in your apartment in Italian with sticky notes i.e. - like the books, the table,the counter, the sink and so on, it will help you to remember the vocabulary! Are you speaking to each other in Italian? What does your Italian Assistant do while you guys are in school?

    Love,

    Aunt Andrea

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  3. Mom - hahaha very funny! as much as I miss all of those wonderful things about home, I must live this rough life ;) Yess we should skype! We'll probably be out and about Saturday afternoon (your morning) but I'll email you once we know what we're doing!

    Aunt Andrea - yes they take shopping very seriously here! haha I was surprised by the shop by appointment as well, it's so funny! Glad you like the pictures, there'll be more to come for sure. Italian went well today, our teacher seems really nice and helpful and only speaks in Italian which is hard but probably a good thing for me. Mom says I can't come home if I don't speak like a native by the end of my stay here so no worries on that front :) My friends and I speak to each other in English because we have a lot of opportunities to use our Italian and it gets pretty tiring to always be speaking Italian. Our Italian Assistant practices law in the morning and studies music in the afternoon so she's pretty busy while we're taking classes lol miss you! Thanks for reading and commenting :)

    Love,
    Steph

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  4. Steph,

    Thanks for taking the time to put all of this together - what an adventure you're having!!! I can't wait to visit. Maybe we can make an appointment to shop for a Lamborghini... !!!

    Love, Dad

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